"Whiskey in a tea cup" is a good metaphor for me. I'm a southern babygirl/little who is attracted to strong but caring Daddy Doms. My mindspace can go from "hold me and pet me, while I suck on my thumb" to "fuck me so hard I scream for you, Daddy."
I love Asks as long as they are respectful. Mean people suck, therefore I ignore them. :)